There's nothing sexier than authenticity.
Barbara van Zyl
Who is
Barbara?
I'm South African, I live in Texas, and I spend a good part of my life on planes meeting people.
I came to matchmaking the long way round, through law and finance. It taught me to read the fine print, in contracts and in people.
Every introduction since has taught me the same thing:
Attraction fades. Compatibility compounds.
Authenticity cultivates confidence, and you can't cultivate confidence without knowing who you are. That's what I'm really good at: figuring out who you are, then finding the person who fits.
I don't do this alone. I work alongside some of the best people in the industry, with a dedicated recruitment team behind every search. Leading matchmaking companies bring me in as an online dating expert, because after years of managing dating profiles I know exactly how people present themselves, and how to see past it.
There is a match out there for everyone.
- Now
- Executive Matchmaker, Tuxedy
- Also
- Online dating expert to leading agencies
- Team
- Dedicated recruitment team
- Based
- Texas · travelling often
- Roots
- South Africa
- Studied
- BCom (Law)

Introductionsby invitation
Consultation
Every search begins with a private conversation, in person or by call.
Verification
Every candidate is met and verified before a name is shared.
Introduction
Introductions are made with the consent of both sides, and in complete confidence.
South African by birth. Based in Texas. Often on the road across the United States and around the world.
home
Cape Town
roots
New York
San Francisco
London
Paris
Dubai
The
practicefour services
Private search
A retained search conducted personally, from first consultation through every introduction.
Profile management
Complete, confidential management of dating profiles on the client's behalf.
Image & presentation
Photography direction and writing across dating profiles, LinkedIn and Instagram.
Personal brand
Ongoing oversight of a client's public presence, on their terms.
Five houses
Where you may have found me Live ForthcomingEnquirein confidence
Came here from one of my agencies, or want to talk it through first? Write to me directly. Everything you share stays between us, and I reply personally within two business days.
barbara@tuxedy.comThank you.
Barbara will reply personally within two business days.